Shelly Skinner

Founder

Uplift Black North

Shelly Skinner is an activist, change-maker, and community builder. With her lived experience of racism, violence against women, and homophobia, she carries a story of inspirational perseverance, leadership, and activism. In recent years, she has established herself as a community leader whose influence resonates in the communities of Simcoe County and beyond.

Shelly is a dedicated community organizer and has lent her skills and expertise to support countless organizations, including RogersTV Barrie, Women and Children’s Shelter of Barrie, Barrie Pride, Redwood Park Communities, Dress for Success, Ethnic Mosaic Alliance, the MacLaren Art Centre, and the Women’s Advocacy Committee for the Women and Children’s Shelter of Barrie.

She is also the co-founder of Making Change Across Simcoe Country, an organization that is focused on increasing awareness of Black communities in Canada through events centered around Black History Month.

Shelly is a powerful and inspirational speaker who has lent her voice to many organizations, including various high schools in Simcoe County, Georgian College, City of Barrie, Barrie Public Library, Ontario Trillium Foundation and EGALE.

Shelly is the recipient of the 2020 Barrie Chamber of Commerce’s Women in Business “Woman of the Year Heart and Soul” Award, and was recognized as one of Barrie’s “Notable Women Who Have Made an Impact in Our Community,” by Barrie 360 in 2019. In 2018 Shelly was the first Black Queer Woman to run municipal elections in Barrie and though she wasn’t chosen in her Ward, she inspired more marginalized people to seek ways of getting involved in their communities to effectively make change and demand social justice and equity in their region.

Currently, Shelly is the founder of UPLift Black, an emerging organization dedicated to the visibility and economic development of the black community in Canada.

Overall, Shelly brings passion, leadership and drive to everything she does, and she is an inspiration to people of various backgrounds to become the leaders their communities sorely need.

Meghan Edwards

Coordinator

Simcoe County Violence Against Women Coordinating Committees

Meghan Edwards works as the Coordinator for Simcoe County Violence Against Women Coordinating Committees. She sees her role on the Women’s Advisory Council as a way to plug into a diverse and determined group of women who will bring change to their homes, workplaces and community. She brings her experience as a Coordinator advocating for change and observing broader, macro trends facing agencies that work with women experiencing violence. Meghan has worked in women’s shelters in Manitoba and Ontario, in addition to her role as coordinator and wants to end all forms of violence against all women, creating a safer society for everyone.

Tami Tarini

Director of Service Excellence and Innovation

Independent Living Services of Simcoe County and Area

Tami Tarini is the Director of Service Excellence and Innovation at Independent Living Services of Simcoe County and Area, which supports people with disabilities and seniors in the community. Tami oversees and leads the Accessibility Resource Centre, quality improvement initiatives and community collaborations.

Tami has 30 years of progressive experience in community healthcare. She possesses a unique blend of knowledge & experience including administration of community support services and development. Her skills include leadership, teambuilding, strategic/operational planning and project management.

Her education in Interdisciplinary Studies in Non-profit and Voluntary Sector Management at Ryerson University and the Developmental Service Worker program from Fanshawe College has provided a great foundation for a career in community support services & healthcare. She brings a passion & dedication for equality, inclusion and awareness for disability issues and the advancement & wellbeing of all women.

Kellie Leeder

Women’s Health Coordinator

Gilbert Centre for Social and Support Services

Kellie has been working with the Gilbert Centre since 2017 advocating for clients and engaging clients with support and social interactions with peers. She works within the organization to raise awareness and advocacy for 2SLGBTQ, HIV/AIDS and HEPC. Kellie is passionate in sharing knowledge and supports activities delivered by the Gilbert Centre.

Natalie Harris

Ward Six Councillor

City of Barrie

Natalie Harris is the City of Barrie’s Ward Six Councillor, who found her way into the world of politics after having played a role in the royal assent of Ontario’s PTSD Bill (Bill 163), and Canada’s PTSD Bill (Bill C-211). She is a retired Advanced Care Paramedic, for which she received the Ontario Paramedic Association’s Exemplary Service Award in 2018, and possess a Bachelor in Health Sciences from Victoria University, for which she received the Outstanding Achievement Award in 2010. Along with being an educator with organizations such as Georgian College and the Sunnybrook Centre for Prehospital Medicine, she is an avid writer and has written several books including, “Save-My-Life School: A first responder’s mental health journey”, (with the foreword written by six-time Canadian Olympian, Clara Hughes), and is a blogger for the Huffington Post. In 2017, she founded the peer support group, Wing’s of Change, which offers meetings across Canada, and is the co-founder and President of the not-for-profit, BrainStorm Revolution. She is the creator of Addition Get-Well Cards, and has spoken at countless events nationally about her own battles with addiction and PTSD. She is a proud Bell Let’s Talk Ambassador, recipient of the John Graves Simcoe Medal of Honour, was named one of Barrie’s Leading Women, and has also received the Tema Conter Memorial Resiliency Award in 2017. She was presented with the One Woman – Fearless Woman Award in 2018, but her proudest accomplishment is of being a mom to Caroline and Adam, and a ‘grammy’ to Beckham.

Kaela Affrunti

Indigenous Bail Supervisor

Barrie Native Friendship Centre

Indigenous Kwe. Courageous Woman. Passionate Advocate striving to make a difference in the world for women.

Kaela was born and raised in Barrie, Ontario. She is a 29 years young Métis woman who graduated in 2019 from Georgian College with Honors, from the Indigenous Community & Social Development Program. Kaela has had her own personal experiences of domestic abuse. Through her journey of healing and self-discovery this has lead her to her true passion. From Survivor to Thriver Kaela is passionate about helping women in her community. Her goal is to work towards making a change within her dual roles of employment at the Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie and as the Indigenous Bail Supervisor at the Barrie Native Friendship Centre.

Joanne Bullock

Executive Board Member

Business and Professional Women of Barrie

Joanne Bullock trained as an artist and received her Bachelor of Arts in Fine Art from the University of Guelph in 1996. She worked in the creative arts for several years in Gallery Administration, as a Curator of Media Arts as well as a Director and Producer of several Cree television documentaries. She has continued to make custom and one of a kind gold and silver jewellery throughout her life and completed her Goldsmith Certificate from Georgian College in 2013.

Joanne has also enjoyed a 20-year career as an office manager for a family dental business in Barrie. She helped launch the business in 2001 when she and her family relocated to Barrie from Moose Factory. Her focus remains on team building and supporting excellence in patient care.

Since 2016, Joanne has been a member and an Executive board member of the Business and Professional Women of Barrie. She has held the position of 1st VP (2016-18) and President (2018-2020) and will hold the chair of Immediate Past-President (2020-2022). In 2019, the Business and Professional Women of Barrie participated in a province-wide anti-Human Trafficking event which co-ordinated local politicians, media, organizations and media.

Joanne best serves her community by working on partnerships and connections with like minded individuals and organization. She has participated and supported local actions such as Pints for Politics, International Women’s Day events and attended several Anti-Human Sex Trafficking events. She is determined to support and create change towards gender equality locally, regionally and globally.

Colleen Moreau

Colleen is an Anishinaabe women from Drummand Island and Georgian Bay, who resides within Simcoe County. She holds an Honours Bachelor of Social Work Indigenous Studies degree, she is trained in the Strengths Bases Approach, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Safe Talk, Rainbows (facilitator, and co-facilitator) and Sharing Circles. She also has experience facilitating and co-facilitating coping cats/girls talk groups.

Colleen has a strong work ethic advocate for families in crisis. Stopping violence against women and children is something she holds close to her heart, as she too is a survivor of domestic violence. This includes spreading awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls (MMIWG), advocating for Indigenous rights, and keeping nibi (water) and Mother Earth clean for our next Seven Generations. Having a permanent disability, she is a strong advocate for individuals with disabilities, whether it be visible or invisible.

Throughout Colleen’s professional career she works through an anti-oppressive, anti-racist and culturally sensitive lens, she understands that each person is different and deals with stressors differently. Therefore, each situation can not be addressed in the same manner. She works with families differently based on their level of needs, abilities, and culture. Each person is unique in their own way and deserves to be treated with respect. She promotes cultural teachings in Sharing Circles using an Eagle Feather. When a circle is created, everyone is an equal and at the same level, which creates safety and unity. Circles promote communication and trust within oneself and amongst others. All relationships require communication and trust, without those, the relationship can not prosper in a positive way.

Colleen’s understanding of the dynamics of communication, active listening, case management, field work, conflict resolution and problem solving skills has enhanced her experience working with Women in Crisis, at Risk Youth, Indigenous families, and individuals struggling with mental health and addiction related issues.

Colleen is a naturally gifted artist who works with traditional crafting methods, where she utilizes those within her daily life, by working with hides and pelts, and growing and making traditional medicines. She raised her boys without television, in its place she also taught them to work with their hands by crafting cultural items.

During the COVID-19 (Coronavirus) Pandemic Colleen is working from home, as well, volunteering her time making and distributing free face masks, hospital caps and hospital gowns for Indigenous communities, front line workers, family and friends.

Cheryl Dillon

Accessibility & Diversity Advisor

City of Barrie, Human Resources Department

Cheryl is originally from British Columbia and spent a lot of time living and working in Western Canada with non-profit organizations assisting persons recovering from brain injury as well as former offenders, to find and maintain employment. Upon completing a Master’s in Education focusing on Community Rehabilitation and Disability Studies through the University of Calgary, she subsequently worked with the Alberta Provincial Government in their Seniors and Disability Supports Division as a Program Advisor, in addition to assignments as a Policy Analyst, Labour Market Specialist and Disability Research Consultant.

While in Alberta she met and married her husband, an Ontarian, and relocated to Barrie in April 2010 to be closer to his family. She has been working with the City of Barrie since August 2010 as the City’s Accessibility Coordinator, and recently took on the role of Accessibility & Diversity Advisor in order to help advance the City’s Age-Friendly Community Panning and diversity and inclusion goals.

Cheryl was previously a member of the Board of Directors for Independent Living Services of Simcoe County and Area; and Volunteered at Season’s Centre for Grieving Children. She currently participates as a volunteer advisor for the Georgian College Program Advisory Committee (PAC) for the Community Integration Through Co-operative Education (CICE) Program and sits on the MacLaren Art Centre’s Community Engagement Committee.

Cheryl is passionate about equity and inclusion and hopes to learn from and share ideas with everyone involved in the Women’s Advocacy Committee, to help create safer spaces for all individuals to thrive.

Charlene Scime

Principal

Simcoe County District School Board

Charlene Scime is a dedicated educator of over 25 years and steadfast supporter of women and girls. As a high school Principal in Simcoe County, Charlene seeks out opportunities to teach students about gender equality and women’s rights, including celebrating the achievements of women on International Women’s Day, encouraging students to take the pledge to end violence against women through the White Ribbon Campaign, and educating girls about consent. She also works with students in a mentorship capacity to ensure they have access to resources and opportunities to succeed. In addition to her work as an educator, Charlene is a community advocate. She was a founding member of 100+ Women Who Care (South Georgian Triangle), a women-led initiative that has raised over $167K to further the work of local charities, and currently serves as Vice Chair of Community Connection 211 (Central East), a Collingwood-based organization that connects residents to critical community, social, health and government services.

Ashley Snowball

Co-Founder

Born Legacy

Ashley Snowball was a victim of abuse and domestic violence, and through her journey of reclaiming her power, self-expression and taking back her voice she came to believe all women deserve to access their full potential and true essence. She is Co-creator of Born Legacy where they guide women who have been impacted by traumatic experiences to heal from the past in order to stand confidently in who they are and live the life they desire.

Ashley shares her life experiences and inspiration through spoken word art, to reach a wide range of audience with her versatile technique she uses different speaking platforms to do so.

She has recently taken action to become a volunteer for ‘Fight For Freedom’, an anti-trafficking organization supporting individuals who have been impacted by exploitation, in order to build trust and relations with some of the most vulnerable women and build upon the intention of the organization.

Isabelle Desfossés

Le Centre Colibri, Centre des femmes francophones du Comté de Simcoe

I was born in Montréal, shortly after Christmas, on Dec 27 1972. I went to an all girl private high school ran by Italian nuns, Collège Ste-Marcelline. I then graduated from Bois-de-Boulogne College in Health Sciences, initially with the ultimate goal to become a veterinarian, due to my love and passion for animals.

Plans did not quite work out and I ended up at Ottawa University studying Nursing. As a student I had joined the Navy Reserve with the Canadian Armed Forces where I graduated with a Bachelor degree in Business. Thru this adventure I travelled and lived in British-Columbia and Nova Scotia.

In 1998, I took on my first position as a Pharmaceutical Representative for Parke-Davis and managed the territory of New-Brunswick / PEI. In 2000 I took a lateral transfer to Sudbury Ontario and lived the merger to Pfizer, worked for various companies (3M / Graceway Pharma, Novartis, Novartis Animal Health, Ferring, Vanguard Pharma and recently Philips Lifeline).

I am the mother of two beautiful girls (13 and 16), one step-daughter (27), one step-son (30) and a 4 yr old grand-son. My husband, Brian Scheffel, is my rock, my strongest support, the one who has helped me overcome years of abuse.

My life experiences have brought me to volunteer for Le Centre Colibri, Centre for francophone women of Simcoe County and for l’Union Culturelle des Franco-Ontariennes (training and support circles for Caregivers). I am hoping to help better francophone women and children’s lives by claiming changes in the current Court system, by speaking up about Alienation (often used as a defense mechanism for abusers) and informing women about the laws of mobility in Canada.

I am also a member of the BSSN (Barrie Senior Services Network) and volunteer for the Cody’s House (Mental health healing and education for teenagers and youth).

Sasha Parrell

Co-Founder

Born Legacy

Mother. Entrepreneur. Author. Advocate for Mindset Transformation.

Sasha spent most of her early adulthood struggling with drug and alcohol abuse, which she utilized as a coping mechanism for dealing with untreated trauma. She led a very self-destructive lifestyle where she was sexually assaulted, abused and faced near death experiences. After numerous breaking points, she indulged herself to personal and professional development, turning her life completely around.

After the birth of her daughter in 2016, Sasha became determined to ensure she became the best possible role model for her child, and to break the cycle of generational trauma that existed within her family.

Fueled by her relentless passion to influence others, she and her partner created Born Legacy, a community of empowered women with a mission to lead victims of trauma to a life of empowerment, peace and fulfillment! Sasha is committed to doing everything in her power to provide opportunities for other women to escape the painful circumstances she once was in.

Sara Tuck

Sara is a passionate leader with over 20 years of experience working in post-secondary education. Employed by Georgian College and working in various management roles including Conference and Event Services, Financial Aid, Convocation and most recently Manager, Continuing Education and Corporate Training where she is responsible for the business development, delivery and administration of a broad mix of corporate training and continuing education programs and courses across all Georgian College campuses.

She holds a Bachelor of Business Administration, specializing in Leadership from Davenport University and is a designated Certified Meeting Professional (CMP).

Sara builds positive relationships with everyone she works with, both internal and external College stakeholders. She is collaborative by nature, and is easily able to build consensus to move complicated projects with multiple stakeholders forward.
Sara believes in the power of human connection to enable change for future generations. Her people centered approach encourages collaboration, embraces innovation and supports achievement.

Sarah Cunningham

Project Coordinator

Women’s Advocacy Council

Sarah Cunningham brings over 20 years of experience of working and advocating with and for women, children and youth. Sarah is Cree from Rama First Nation with roots from Brunswick House First Nation and belongs to the Bear Clan. Sarah has worked in various capacities across the County of Simcoe and Canada with many non for profit organizations, Artists, Board of Directors, government and educational institutions. Throughout her learning journey, many leaders and trail blazing women have mentored Sarah. Sarah is passionate in organizing, collaborating and creating events to bring communities together to improve the quality of life and knowledge to create equality for our future seven generations.

Sarah provides leadership, strategic communications through her collaboration on the creation of new research, policies, protocols, content creation, project management and development. She is a liaison between councils and community to identify overlaps and gaps to bring awareness to make change. She is responsible for planning, coordinating and delivering projects, research and events to the WAC’s initiatives.

Kelly Letourneau

Development Manager

Women and Children’s Shelter of Barrie

Manager

Women’s Advocacy Council

Kelly is a self-motivated leader with a track record of developing and delivering sales results, major projects and initiatives in corporate, municipal, small business, and non-profit environments. She is responsible for fund development and stewardship; community engagement; project management and supervisory and volunteer management.

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Shelter counsellors are available 24 hours per day to respond to calls from women seeking information, support, counselling, or shelter. The crisis line is often the first point of contact for women who are thinking of leaving or planning to leave an abusive relationship. All service is confidential. Women can call as often as they like for as long as they require support. Women may come into the shelter or be referred to our outreach services or another community agency. This line is also available to people who call for information about a friend or loved one that they are concerned about, and to community agencies calling on behalf of a client. Counsellors always must speak directly with the woman before residency can be offered.

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Our Crisis Line:

Local: 705-728-2544
Toll-Free: 1-800-461-1716

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Community Outreach Services

Local: 705-721-9977

Transitional Housing Support Services

Local: 705-721-9977 ext. 324

Legal Support and Advocacy

Local: 705-721-9977 ext. 322

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Outreach

Outreach Services are available to women in the community who have experienced or are currently experiencing abuse and violence. Women can meet with a counsellor, obtain legal support and information, or attend one of the psycho-educational or support groups that are offered throughout the year. These services are free and confidential. Appointments can be made by calling 705-721-9977.

Short term solution-focused counselling

Safety planning

Information and education about violence against women

Referrals to other community and social service agencies
Public education about violence against women

Legal information and support

Safety planning

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Accompaniment to legal appointments and court support

Public education about violence against women

Psycho-educational groups

Support groups

Individual counselling as needed

Public education about violence against women

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Public Education

Our Outreach and shelter staff is available for presentations to the community to raise awareness about gender-based violence and its devastating effects upon women and children. This service is offered to service clubs, community and social service agencies, college students and faculty, law enforcement, court personnel, and both the elementary and secondary schools in the area.

Any group wishing to gain more information about the services that are offered by the Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie or to request a presentation about violence against women can call 705-728-6300 ext 229 or fill out the Request a Speaker Form (can this be fillable right on the website like the volunteer form?) All fillable forms should be linked to kaity@barrieshelter.com

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Shelter

The Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie provides emergency shelter 24 hours per day, 365 days per year. Our shelter can accommodate 27 women and children; each family has their own room and share communal living space with other families. We accept self-referrals and referrals from community agencies, law enforcement, and other shelters and social services. There are community services available through The Safe Pet Program for women who want to take their pets with them when they leave.

Services for Women

24 hour crisis telephone counselling
Safe emergency shelter 24/7
Safety planning
Counselling
Support groups
Legal information
Court support
Information about violence against women
Referrals to community resources
Advocacy
Assistance with transportation
Parenting support
Respite for mothers

Services for Children/Teens

Safety planning
Counselling
Children’s groups
Recreational activities
Advocacy
Referrals to community resource specific to children & teens

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24 Hour Crisis

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Shelter counsellors are available 24 hours per day to respond to calls from women seeking information, support, counselling, or shelter. The crisis line is often the first point of contact for women who are thinking of leaving or planning to leave an abusive relationship. All service is confidential. Women can call as often as they like for as long as they require support. Women may come into the shelter or be referred to our outreach services or another community agency. This line is also available to people who call for information about a friend or loved one that they are concerned about, and to community agencies calling on behalf of a client. Counsellors always must speak directly with the woman before residency can be offered.

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Aims

At the Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie we strive to ensure that all of our services and programs are offered in a non-judgmental, non-oppressive, non-racist, and respectful manner. To achieve this goal we:

Provide a safe and supportive space for women and children
Commit to providing all programs and services in a confidential manner
Respect and honour the rights of women and children
Assist women to explore their options and respect their choices
Work towards achieving equity for women locally, nationally, and globally
Ensure accessibility of all services
Recognize and respect differences and diversity between and amongst women
Provide information and education about violence against women to community members and other service providers.

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Beliefs

Anti-Racism/Anti-Oppression Statement of Purpose

The Women and Children’s Shelter of Barrie is committed to the elimination of systemic racism and oppression. It is our intention to create a diverse global community of inclusiveness, equality and respect for everyone. Discrimination in all forms will be challenged and viewed as an opportunity to advise and educate.

Beliefs

All persons have the right to live free from the presence and threat of violence.

All persons have the right to live in a peaceful and nurturing environment.

The individual strengths and resources of each person deserve recognition and respect.

All persons will develop to their greatest potential when given adequate and appropriate support and information.

The equality, dignity, and uniqueness of all persons must be recognized and supported at both an individual and social level.

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Aims

Philosophy

The Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie is a feminist organization that recognizes the many oppressions and barriers that women face both locally and globally. Women have experienced and continue to experience interpersonal, social, and systemic abuse. They have less access to educational opportunities, information, and community resources and are more likely to live in poverty than men in our society. Women are under-represented in corporate and government structures and over-represented in low paying, low status jobs. Immigrant, Indigenous, and Francophone women face additional barriers as do women with disabilities, women living in poverty, elder women, and women from the LGBTQ community.

Intimate partner abuse is not gender neutral. Men commit the overwhelming majority of all violent crimes and usually against women or girls. Almost half (48%) of all violent crimes committed in Canada involve a male perpetrator against a female victim. Thirty-nine percent of violent crimes involve a male perpetrator and a male victim. Women commit 13% of all violent crimes with 6% of those being against males. Women are more likely than men to be seriously injured by their partners and require medical treatment.

Violence against women and children is a coercive expression of male dominance, power, and control, and reflects the gender inequity that exists in our society. As long as our societal systems and institutions are complicit in maintaining and protecting male dominance, gender-based violence will not abate and will continue to be a reality in the lives of women in our community. The Women & Children’s Shelter of Barrie is committed to advocating for women’s rights locally and nationally and challenging beliefs, attitudes, and systems that perpetuate gender inequity, sexism, and violence against women.

Beliefs

Aims

A gift of cash is one of the most common ways to make a charitable gift. We always welcome donations of cash, whether big or small. Some employers may match charitable gifts made by current and retired employees, an effective way to increase the impact of your donation.

Your tax-deductible donation can be made on a monthly or annual basis and will help us continue to provide quality service to women and children in our community.

If you would like to make a tax-deductible donation to the Women and Children’s Shelter by cash, credit card or cheque, you may either call 705-728-6300 or click HERE

How donations make a difference:

$17 – provides shelter to one child for one day.

$25 – provides transportation for one woman to a legal or medical appointment.

$60 – provides 3 meals for a mom with 3 children.

$120 – provides shelter to one woman or child for one week.

$250 – provides a basic start up basket for one woman leaving shelter.

$500 – provides repairs to one bathroom at the shelter.

$1,000 – provides groceries for everyone in shelter for one week.

$1,200 – provides shelter to one woman or child for ten weeks.

$1,500 – provides activities for children over the holiday break such as bowling,
movies, swimming, etc.

The Women’s Advocacy Council’s long-term vision is to eliminate the gender gap in public and private spheres.

Out of 26 major cities in Canada, Barrie, Ontario ranked the worst city to be a woman in 2019

Our Goal

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Teresa MacLennan

Kelly Letourneau

Sarah Cunningham

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Women’s Advocacy Council

Sara Tuck

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Sasha Parrell

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Ashley Snowball

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Isabelle Desfossés

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Charlene Scime

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Cheryl Dillon

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Colleen Moreau

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Joanne Bullock

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Kaela Affrunti

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Natalie Harris

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Kellie Leeder

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Tami Tarini

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Meghan Edwards

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Shelly Skinner

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